I declared, and very proudly and loudly too, that I would make sure that I had a separate bedroom whenever I got married. I was so sure that having to share a bed forever would be the most uncomfortable thing. Why?
- Because hello, I like my space. Not just my space, my space on the bed too. Well, let's just say this fear was confirmed. See how Cakes likes to sleep.
Dude, what happened to YOUR side of the bed?
- Secondly, what if my future husband's body was too hot - temperature wise, not looks-wise. I didn't want to have to worry about sweating at night. However, this has turned out to be a good thing. Since Mr. Cakes likes to sleep with the AC at 0 degrees, I need his body heat to keep me warm.
Okay, this can be OUR side
- What if my future spouse and I had a fight? Was I still supposed to sleep on the same bed? Dramatic me would rather have had a separate bedroom to go to (or go and sleep on the kitchen floor to prove a point). Well, since getting married and trying to fly to Mars during arguments and not succeeding, this is how we sleep.
I'm so distraught I can't sleep
But even though some of my fears were confirmed, and some were obviously just me being silly, nothing beats when we're both happy and not distracted by technology, as below