October 13, 2016

BERRY VLOG - My First Heartbreak

Young love... I remember what it felt like to be young and "in love" so many moons ago. Back then, I was so sure about love being like a fairy tale, no thanks to Disney. DISCLAIMER - I LOVE DISNEY!!! Anyways, during our weekend trip with just the girls, we gisted and laughed about all our shenanigans from way back when. My cousin reminded me about this guy who I could just not get over, for absolutely no reason! I mean, we dated for just a month, and yet years later, I would still be crying over him - I told you, MAKES NO SENSE! Watch as I gist a little bit about it in my latest vlog.

In retrospect, I think what caused me to cry for a long time was the "What If" factor. I was too tied to the idea of what could have been, and that was the real cause of my apparent dramatics. As I've gotten older, I've realized that crying over what may or may not have happened, is certainly not the way to go. But I'll chalk up my tears to being young and silly :p

I hope you enjoyed this video! I'm fixing to have a vlog WITH Cakes very soon. I got an idea for a topic from a commenter already, but you can leave your suggestions for future videos too.

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12 comments:

  1. I'm first to comment... Yayy!!! I learnt the hard way that feelings are not necessarily built based on "how long we date". My only heartbreak, we dated for 4 months before i found out i was the side chick. I was hurt so bad and i asked him to choose, he chose her and got married 6 months later.

    I realized that what really hurt was that i was at that point where i felt i was ready to get married and he was from my tribe finally! He was the fun guy and i was the good girl. He was at my house every other day on his way back from work and we'll spend hours talking outside so feelings grew quickly. I was broken and threw all my time and energy into getting a new job, starting my professional qualification and general personal development.

    3 years after he got married, he calls me up last year valentines day and wants to catch up as though nothing ever happened. I realized i was totally over him. I was in a much better place that where he met me. I had a banging job, a car, almost done with my professional qualification and travelling upandan *wink*

    Well, its 5 years since we broke up. I spent the first 4 years getting over a guy i only dated for 4 months plus dint really meet any other serious guys. The last year? Lets just say im fully recovered, learning to love again and would be walking down that aisle soon... *hopefully*

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    1. Yaaaaaaaaaaaaay Eny!

      Oh wow @ your story! It makes me sad that he treated you that way. I hope you didn't let him make any head-way when he called. It can be really easy to drop your guard when you remember the good times and loving feelings.

      Well, from your conclusion, it seems like there's a good guy in the shadows... invite me o!

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  2. Thank God WE moved on. Because I'm pretty sure I cried for him too. How the tables have turned (upside down smiley face)

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    1. YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU! Imma have to tackle you offline!

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  3. This is really hilarious yet interesting Berry... Young love! Lol

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    1. Thanks Jessica. It's funny now, but back then I was crying buckets o :p

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  4. This video was suggested to me three days ago, by Youtube. I watched it then and I laughed my heart out. You keep taunting Cakes. I love the energy combo of you two. Yayyy to him showing up in your Vlogs.
    www.bubusboulevard.com

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    1. Hahaha, if I don't look for his trouble, who will? :D

      I want him in more vlogs but Uncle won't let us be great!

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  5. I Experienced what you can call a heart break in May/June this year, it was both traumatic and a learning process for me. Reason being one, he got married and I only got to know a week to his traditional marriage from my neighbor who was making his tuxedo, many thoughts came to my mind at that point in time, because I tried to imagine how someone could be so cruel and wicked at the same time, but as they say what doesnt kill you, only makes you stronger so like Britney spears sang, i am stronger than yesterday and thank God for the woman that I am and woman I AM BECOMING.www.khealthandbeautyplace.blogspot.com

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    1. OH NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! You hear such stories, but never think it can happen to you or anyone you know. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. WOW! Good riddance to him!

      I like your spirit - you're definitely a strong woman!

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