As you all know, Cakes and I were apart for almost two months recently. His bakery still runs in Lagos, Nigeria and he went to go and check on things over there. Like I have mentioned before, he will be going back and forth between Lagos and Atlanta. For now, he's here until December so if you're in Atlanta, call 404-993-3770 to order your cakes and small chops.
Anyways, while he was away, I kept getting questions and messages that insinuated that I was probably miserable because he wasn't with me. Erm... not quite.
I mean I missed him, but my life didn't stop. So in this vlog I share about having "alone time" or "me time" in relationships or marriage. I think that it's important to have a balance between spending quality time with your significant other and having time to yourself.
Three reasons why I think it's important to have "me time" are:
- To build yourself up and feel refreshed.
- To prevent resentment toward your partner.
- To boost intimacy between you and your significant.
Do you agree or disagree?
Well I am not married so I can't say for that but in regular relationships, its essential to have some alone time
ReplyDeleteI agree. Even if it's not a romantic relationship, or even if you're at home with your family, you still need some time to yourself.
DeleteEven as a single unmarried lady I always want a me time not to talk of married
ReplyDeleteI agree jor
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LOL, that's why I made sure to pursue my interests and took myself out on solo dates.
DeleteAmazing video. Me time is very important for every individual because it helps us re-connect with our self really.
ReplyDeleteGood job Berry.
Thank you Sharon. I totally agree with you.
DeleteI'm not exactly sure being 2 months apart from one's spouse counts as alone time
ReplyDeleteLOL! If you watch the video MADAM BOSS, you'll get what I mean.
DeleteI totally agree with you!! That 'me'time,very essential something.
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Yes o!
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