September 1, 2016

Why You Need Alone Time in your Relationship

Hey there!

As you all know, Cakes and I were apart for almost two months recently. His bakery still runs in Lagos, Nigeria and he went to go and check on things over there. Like I have mentioned before, he will be going back and forth between Lagos and Atlanta. For now, he's here until December so if you're in Atlanta, call 404-993-3770 to order your cakes and small chops.

Anyways, while he was away, I kept getting questions and messages that insinuated that I was probably miserable because he wasn't with me. Erm... not quite.



I mean I missed him, but my life didn't stop. So in this vlog I share about having "alone time" or "me time" in relationships or marriage. I think that it's important to have a balance between spending quality time with your significant other and having time to yourself.


Three reasons why I think it's important to have "me time" are:
  1. To build yourself up and feel refreshed.
  2. To prevent resentment toward your partner.
  3. To boost intimacy between you and your significant.
Do you agree or disagree?

10 comments:

  1. Well I am not married so I can't say for that but in regular relationships, its essential to have some alone time

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I agree. Even if it's not a romantic relationship, or even if you're at home with your family, you still need some time to yourself.

      Delete
  2. Even as a single unmarried lady I always want a me time not to talk of married
    I agree jor








    11 things to expect in an average bus trip in naija  

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. LOL, that's why I made sure to pursue my interests and took myself out on solo dates.

      Delete
  3. Amazing video. Me time is very important for every individual because it helps us re-connect with our self really.
    Good job Berry.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thank you Sharon. I totally agree with you.

      Delete
  4. I'm not exactly sure being 2 months apart from one's spouse counts as alone time

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. LOL! If you watch the video MADAM BOSS, you'll get what I mean.

      Delete
  5. I totally agree with you!! That 'me'time,very essential something.

    toyinwithfashion.com

    ReplyDelete

Reading your comments ALWAYS makes me smile. I hope you smile when I reply :)