May 7, 2013

THE ONE

Aaaaaahhhh, L'AMOUR
Ooooooooh, AMORE
*squeals* LOVE LOVE LOVE

"I just knew when I met him, that he was THE ONE"

"When I first laid eyes on here, I knew that she was THE ONE"

"I realized after a few months, that THE ONE had been standing right in front of me"


*Ahem* Sorry to burst your pink bubbles, but erm, I don't believe in THE ONE

*gasp* WHAT THE WHA WHA? *insert Surprised smiley* :-O

Yeah, I really don't believe that THE ONE exists. I think he is simply a figment of fairy tales in an imaginary world. Somewhere in there, the prospect of one person being meant for only one other person in the world, caught the eye of a fanciful maiden or gentleman and the human race ran with it. Let me tell you why I think it's a bunch of baloney.

  1. People in relationships mostly always think they're with THE ONE. That is, until the relationship fails and then 'Oops, she/he wasn't the one for me."
  2. Ok, what if you do marry THE ONE, and sadly he/she dies :( And then you get married to someone else who you say is THE ONE. Who is THE REAL ONE?
  3. What happens if you don't marry THE ONE? Does that mean that you can't or won't ever have a happy, fulfilling life?
I think that there's more than one person out there, that anyone can fall in love with. Hopefully your paths cross and you're BOTH ready to make a lifetime commitment TO EACH OTHER.

Let me not lie... I admit that there was a time in my life when I was the consummate romantic and believed in THE ONE. I knew we'd be married, have beautiful babies and live happily ever after. And then, life happened. I don't know if it became a function of one too many heartbreaks or just me getting older and wiser, but my outlook on love, changed.




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10 comments:

  1. Damn right girl, we are getting older and wiser.
    there are plenty the "ones"

    barbara

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  2. just commented, forgot to vote,

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  3. I believe we MAKE the one...we decide to either be deliriously happy, or not.

    The rest is just gas.

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    1. Hmm. I think I like this point of view.

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  4. The last paragraph sums it up for me.

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  5. I was amazed to see that no one voted Yes on the poll so far. I completely agree that there are many potentials so it's all about selecting one that's be "the one" (if that makes sense)...

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  6. Brad Pitt, Ryan Gosling, Bradley Cooper, Robert Downey Jr, Wale and my bf (in case he ever reads this) are all my 'the ones'. Now how does a girl choose?

    Seriously though, I don't believe in 'The One'

    http://bexluvs2dress.blogspot.com

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