I missed youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu! Come gimme a big bear hug, because those are the BEST! Erm, don't crush the boobage please. *ahem*
I had an awesomely great weekend! One of my dearest friends, sister-from-another-mother, had her traditional wedding! It was oh-so-lovely. Her guy is also a family friend, so I had 2 families to support. Cakes and I drove to Anambra state to support them AND deliver their cake, which I will share in my next post. Aaaaaaaaaaand, we also did our Pre-wedding/Engagement photo shoot!!! I'll also share in a different post.
So let's get to the topic on my mind.
You know how you're not supposed to have sex before you get married, right? And you can have sex on your wedding night (or afternoon, depending on how randy you both are), right? My question is this: WHICH WEDDING NIGHT?
Is it that you can start having sex after the TRADITIONAL, CIVIL/COURT or CHURCH wedding? Like what if you have your trad or civil wedding months or even a year before the church, can the couple start having sex? Or what if you never even have a church wedding?
I'd always been of the mind that if you haven't done the church wedding, then you're not married in the eyes of God. But like someone pointed out, in this day and age, the traditional ceremony's held in the name of Jesus with prayers and pastors attending... so it should count, right?
I'm confused. I really don't know which is the correct one.
Help me out. What do you think?