This weekend...

I shall be doing one or more of the following... If you're in Lagos, you are welcome to attend. Make sure you say hi, if I make it :D

FRIDAY/TODAY
*considering that I'm still at work, I'm not sure if I'll still go for this. There are still 3 hours left to go though, so maybe* A few friends of mine will be speaking and sharing ideas here.

SATURDAY
As part of the ongoing TW Fitness Challenge (which I seem to be doing HORRIBLE at), we're joining the magazine on a walk against cancer. It's TOMORROW at 6:30am from Four Points VI, to Bar Beach, culminating with seminars and SPA TREATMENTS!!!

Afterwards, there's an Open House at the gym I use... I can't find art work for the event. It's between 4 and 6pm at Body Works Fitness Studio in Lekki.

And then, my church, The Waterbrook is hosting a one-week gallery to showcase art from local talents! If you enjoy art, come on down!

SUNDAY
My girl, Chee, will be performing at the Elite Model Look Nigeria Finale on Sunday! We're going to support and enjoy some of Nigeria's best fashion!

That's all folks! I hope I don't end up breaking down with fatigue :)

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What I'm Watching Now - Ylvis 'The Fox' (random alert)

I haven't put up one of these posts in a long time! But I just had to share this one, called "The Fox" by Ylvis. The video was posted almost a month ago and has almost 60 million views so far!!! I love silly stuff like this. Enjoy! :)


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First Kiss Fridays :-*

Hello lovers!!!

FIRST KISS FRIDAYS is proving to be a popular series on my blog. Thanks to everyone who's sent in a story so far, and please tell your friends to send stories of their first kisses ever, first kisses with boyfriends/girlfriends, ex-boyfriends/girlfriends, handsome/beautiful strangers, husbands/wives, you get the idea... It will be TOTALLY ANONYMOUS!

Please send your stories to berrydakara@gmail.com

Hi Berry. This isn't a first kiss ever, but a first kiss with someone I'd had a crush on for almost 10 years, if not longer. I had known him since I was 13 or so, but back then we were just friends and I never saw him as someone I was interested in. 2 years later, I moved to a different country and we didn't really keep in touch. A few years later, I'd heard from mutual friends that he moved as well, and I can't remember the exact period but we ran into each other. This time I noticed that he was this tall, dark, and handsome guy and I certainly realized how attracted I was to him. I think he had a girlfriend at the time though, so I just sat back and gisted with him and our friends. Another few years passed and I moved to his city for school, but by then he'd moved to another state, but we saw each other once a year after that. The attraction was still there, but neither of us was interested in a long distance relationship, so we left it at that.

Then two years ago, I wound up in a new city again (lol, I keep moving around like a gypsy), and who turns out to live 2 minutes away?!?! HIM! At this time, I was kind of talking to someone else, so I reached out with only the purest, platonic intentions (honestly). He was shocked that we were in such close proximity to each other and immediately called me, and said we should hang out. His friend's birthday was coming up, and there was a dinner and clubbing outing planned. He picked me up and we went out (as friends, remember) although the electricity between us must have been obvious, because people thought we were a couple. Dinner was nice, I met his friends, and then we went clubbing. At this point, things took a sour turn. He GOT DRUNK OUT OF HIS MIND! Like, someone was pouring straight Hennessy into his mouth! Alcohol is such a turn-off for me, and I was disappointed. By the time the night was over, I was scared of the drive home. He was driving slowly, but still swerving from side to side. I even had to grab the wheel a couple of times before we ended up having an accident. When I got home, I was ecstatic to be getting home with my life intact. But before I left the car, he asked for a hug and I gave it to him. Our faces were close to each other and we ended up kissing for a few seconds. It wasn't totally yucky, but it wasn't the fireworks I was expecting our first kiss to be. I turned and went into my apartment. The following morning, he called to say that he had a dream that we kissed. :-|

*interjecting here* BUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! I mean, sorry dear Reader, but the last line is just funny. Awww, sorry your first kiss with your longtime crush wasn't nice*

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NIGERIAN BLOG AWARDS 2013

Hello boys and girls!

The Nigerian Blog Awards is BACK! What is the Nigerian Blog Awards, you ask... The Nigerian Blog Awards were established in 2010 to recognize excellence in blogging, as determined by readers and fellow bloggers. Blogs by Nigerians or focusing on Nigeria are eligible. I first found out about them last year, when my cousin nominated my other blog, Aje-Butter's Guide to NYSC for Best Tutorial Blog (I won the Popular Vote!).

To be eligible, blogs must

• be blogs :p
• be written by a Nigerian or focused on Nigeria
• have been in existence for at least 6 months and have at least 15 entries
• have been updated in the last 2 months
• be public
• be updated by a maximum of 4 people (or 6... I'm not sure)

Anyways, it's back again and the schedule is as follows:

• Nomination - September 23 to October 13
• Review by NBA - October 14 to 20
• Further review by NBA - October 21 to November 3
• Nominee announcements - November 4
• Voting - November 11 to December 8
• Winners announced - December 15

Categories which apply to me:

• BEST HUMOUR BLOG, 
• BEST NEW BLOG, 
• BEST PERSONAL BLOG, 
• and just for putting it sake, NIGERIAN BLOG OF THE YEAR. 

Sooooooo, if you feel led, compelled, harassed, cajoled, begged, seduced into nominating me for any or all of these categories, go right here to register.

When you're done, you'll get the biggest and bestest hug of your life from me. I give wonderful hugs. I really do.

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GUESS WHO I MET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So this past Sunday, I went to church early for a class (that I struggled to stay awake through... the pastor's thoughts were moving faster than his mouth, so he kept jumping ahead to catch up to his mind, lol). Then it was time for regular church service. In the middle of praise and worship, I needed to visit the ladies room and off I went. I was washing my hands when two of my friends walked in, chattering excitedly. I asked what was going on and they said, "We just met Boris Kodjoe. He's having breakfast in the restaurant."

ENHHHHHHHHHHHHHH? BORIS KODJOE IS IN THE SAME BUILDING AS I AM, AND I DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT IT?!?!?!?!?

*runs out of the bathroom and sprints to the restaurant with the silliest, goofiest, giddiest smile ever*

I walked straight to his table, not noticing the solider (personal security) that was with him.

Me: OMG, Mr. Boris Kodjoe. OMG
Him: *smiles*
Me: *CHINEKE, SEE SMILE, I can die happy*
Him: Hello, how are you?
Me: OMG, Mr. Boris Kodjoe. My friend said you were here. I'm so excited. OMG
Him: Haha, well it's nice to meet you *extends his hand*
Me: *ooooh, his hand is soo soft* Nice to meet you too! OMG! Ooh, can I get a picture?
Him: Well I'm in the middle of eating, but if you're here when I'm done, sure.
Me: *FUDGE MUFFIN!* Of course, of course, silly me. Well it's nice to meet you. Welcome to Nigeria.
Him: Thank you
Me: *skips off slightly embarrassed, and wondering whether to stalk him until he's done with breakfast or go back to church service*

I went back to church service, asking myself why I was more excited about Boris Kodjoe, than being in God's presence. Then I felt a little ashamed and focused on worship, instead of plotting how to go back out just in time for Boris Kodjoe to finish breakfast.

*some of my friends DID catch him after he was done and got pictures with him. I'm jealous, yes I am.*

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