tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post6851265731416880440..comments2024-03-20T10:38:13.266-04:00Comments on Berry Dakara: FACE Your FearsBerry Dakarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-43929941916618936352016-12-10T16:43:01.558-05:002016-12-10T16:43:01.558-05:00I kinda know of people who didn't have serious...I kinda know of people who didn't have serious relationships when they were 30 too. Don't panic, God's always there to help but we need to sometimes move first, we need to take action so he can actually see something to help us in. Plan and do, do it afraid. Save even if you're afraid you wont be able to afford some extra luxuries. Plan Mimiehttp://www.blankpaperz.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-48703115521989011492016-12-10T16:41:06.747-05:002016-12-10T16:41:06.747-05:00Lol this is really awesome. Yes I remember I was a...Lol this is really awesome. Yes I remember I was also super scared of speaking in public when I was still in secondary school. In fact I had my french teacher flog me one time because I was so shy and couldn't speak up when I was answering her question. There were so many people I liked and I wanted to speak to them but lol, that evil thing called low self confidence and shyness... But along the line I started hanging out with really bold people, i was given responsibilities and leadership roles, I just had to learn how to speak my mind and meet people. I'm glad you overcame yours.Mimiehttp://www.blankpaperz.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-61305558980560967692016-09-11T05:43:52.703-04:002016-09-11T05:43:52.703-04:00Thanks Berry😘😘Thanks Berry😘😘Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06433304919329538947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-81413936945564933192016-09-05T11:27:21.139-04:002016-09-05T11:27:21.139-04:00Thanks for sharing....Thanks for sharing....Ericadianashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08839728407585496397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-75047724401243592832016-09-04T15:15:33.100-04:002016-09-04T15:15:33.100-04:00I'm afraid of so many things
At the age of 30...I'm afraid of so many things<br /><br />At the age of 30 I don't have a serious relationship, I don't have a tangible savings yet I'm working. I just need God's intervention ASAPAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-88234202953035118482016-08-31T21:24:26.547-04:002016-08-31T21:24:26.547-04:00Aww Oma! Don't be so afraid that you'll mi...Aww Oma! Don't be so afraid that you'll miss out on something great. Be cautious, yes but open as well. You can also pray that God gives you a heart that's open and able to love. Even when you meet "the one" there will be disappointments, some major and others minor, but you will be able to rise above them. Wishing you the best. Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-84470507955210344852016-08-31T21:20:01.953-04:002016-08-31T21:20:01.953-04:00You're welcome Tonkabelle!You're welcome Tonkabelle!Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-46510441504638209742016-08-31T21:19:36.668-04:002016-08-31T21:19:36.668-04:00Ooooh, I like your coping mechanism! It really spe...Ooooh, I like your coping mechanism! It really speaks to me and I think others would benefit from it. One tiny step at a time, when combined with other tiny steps becomes a big leap, right?! Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-88802770074071542192016-08-31T21:17:46.632-04:002016-08-31T21:17:46.632-04:00Practice makes perfect! My cousin was scared to de...Practice makes perfect! My cousin was scared to death about driving on highways, and it still makes her a bit nervous but the more you do it, the less afraid you'll be. <br /><br />I feel you on speaking though - I can get the worst stage fright ever! Literally crying before I get on stage - even while acting :p<br /><br />But you can always pray about your fears! At least the ones you want to deal with.Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-80458536605725786792016-08-31T21:13:40.812-04:002016-08-31T21:13:40.812-04:00Oh no, I don't think you should be afraid of c...Oh no, I don't think you should be afraid of commenting on blog posts and more. The simple truth is that not everyone will agree with you or have the same opinions. Some are better at voicing disagreements and like you rightly pointed out, others are simply nasty. But I used to be there, especially on another platform - so much so that I stopped commenting, period. I do think it made me get a bit thicker-skinned, but I've also learned to just leave my comment and keep it moving. <br /><br />As far as hearing no, it will come but it won't kill you. It might sting and hurt, but it's nothing you can't get over. Just don't let your fears stop you from being you.Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-39892432562934259702016-08-30T08:06:07.678-04:002016-08-30T08:06:07.678-04:00I'm afraid of falling in love but it doesn'...I'm afraid of falling in love but it doesn't really show, It just happens subconsciously and I start to push them away.<br />I'm terribly afraid of being disappointed even the tiniest bit.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06433304919329538947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-28054830928151055332016-08-30T07:34:15.966-04:002016-08-30T07:34:15.966-04:00Very inspirational, thanks for sharing dear.
www....Very inspirational, thanks for sharing dear.<br /><br />www.wurassecrethair.blogspot.comTonkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06383933483200172835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-71395629517009264972016-08-30T05:44:26.015-04:002016-08-30T05:44:26.015-04:00Thank you for sharing this, Berry.
I love reading ...Thank you for sharing this, Berry.<br />I love reading or hearing about how other people overcome their fears, because I have many.<br />How I try to cope: I look at where I am and where I want to be. I break it down. How can I get from point A to point B? The little steps make it easier to process. I think i've read a Joyce Meyer piece that talks about how FEAR can help you prepare. You're afraid. What are you afraid of? Think about it. How are you inadequate? Rationalising it can help you level up. Not that I'm perfect and slaying my fears. I'm still learning to put my foot out there to face those fears!An Afrikan Butterflyhttp://thekinkandi.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-13565563681291298532016-08-29T07:22:35.642-04:002016-08-29T07:22:35.642-04:00I didn't realize how much fear has ruled my li...I didn't realize how much fear has ruled my life till recently - <br />I don't drive, I'm scared of accidents <br />I don't go for speaking engagements - people make me nervous lol<br />I read your post in IG , and I can so relate even though I've never had my heart broken - it's crazy <br />*Sigh I need GodThe fashion engineerhttp://www.thefashionengineer.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-2521722676396882452016-08-29T07:09:44.052-04:002016-08-29T07:09:44.052-04:00I'm afraid of failing...especially when i'...I'm afraid of failing...especially when i've tried/worked so hard on something(whether relationship or work or personal growth) and it appears to be for nought...afraid of hearing "no"...afraid of posting comments on blogs and related media and maybe getting a nasty response from another reader(Lol)-words can be so easily misconstrued sometimes..<br />..So i remain more an observer than a participant...and so i remain mostly "anonymous"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com