tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post3870292738497590684..comments2024-03-17T07:37:12.071-04:00Comments on Berry Dakara: How's Married Life?Berry Dakarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-74167726501656855702015-01-08T13:14:39.960-05:002015-01-08T13:14:39.960-05:00Awww, marriage is fun. Yes there are hard times an...Awww, marriage is fun. Yes there are hard times and sad times, but there are good times too. It's just life, innit?Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-67487092219006353642015-01-07T17:21:44.620-05:002015-01-07T17:21:44.620-05:00Thanks :)Thanks :)Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-91729575045356732352015-01-07T17:21:14.928-05:002015-01-07T17:21:14.928-05:00LOL, it's not fair to the single folk. They wa...LOL, it's not fair to the single folk. They want real advice!Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-5710168273912327402015-01-07T17:20:36.592-05:002015-01-07T17:20:36.592-05:00Thank you G :DThank you G :DBerry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-9629939516490014282015-01-06T18:13:44.036-05:002015-01-06T18:13:44.036-05:00Berry I pray for you and your home. I like you...o...Berry I pray for you and your home. I like you...or what I see in you when I read your blog. *inserts shy face*<br />GAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-82890644174490185972014-04-30T06:48:16.596-04:002014-04-30T06:48:16.596-04:00Buahahahah I usually say "its like a walk in ...Buahahahah I usually say "its like a walk in a meadow" , "like sunshine" , "Like a never ending present"...I say it cheekily and I never actually go into details with any one LOL No point ..If tehy are married tehn tehy aleady know and if they are not , well when they get there they will know :D Sugarnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-38247860064344843992014-04-28T06:41:51.679-04:002014-04-28T06:41:51.679-04:00Thanks Esohe for your comment! Mehn, 9 years seems...Thanks Esohe for your comment! Mehn, 9 years seems like such a loooong way away, but thank you for the advice. And yup, I agree that being hitched to another realist could potentially have been a disaster... or we wouldn't spend any money at all, for fear of never having enough. Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-13763957468586096362014-04-28T05:21:15.620-04:002014-04-28T05:21:15.620-04:00True that, Berry. Sometimes not-arguing is an indi...True that, Berry. Sometimes not-arguing is an indication of issues unresolved. The aim is not to draw blood, fight/argue nice-ish.<br />#FirstTimeCommenting #SporadicBerryStalkerSuzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15883525707233191822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-18845675753349871212014-04-27T15:38:55.236-04:002014-04-27T15:38:55.236-04:00I saw yur wedding pics on BN 2dae nd I was like I ...I saw yur wedding pics on BN 2dae nd I was like I want to get married...I Luv d concept nd evrytin...God bless yur marriage ...nd tanks for teaching me a ting or two abt marriage cos am rily scared of gettin in2 it..bt after seein yur weddin pics nd readin yur blog 2dae I can say almost al fears are gone...God bless yur marriageholferynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-42131442103495882822014-04-22T04:41:10.541-04:002014-04-22T04:41:10.541-04:00This is the most important lessons I took from thi...This is the most important lessons I took from this post " Married life is not a fairy tale. There are disagreements, arguments, raised voices, slammed doors, locked doors, prayers to God asking for help/grace, tears, etc. In the midst of all this though, are lessons in forgiveness, unselfishness, peace-keeping/seeking, comfort, unconditional love, etc. "Sisi Yemmiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15350113579849499656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-59045800707769334842014-04-10T05:50:28.175-04:002014-04-10T05:50:28.175-04:00Hey Anonymous! You have to find a way to express y...Hey Anonymous! You have to find a way to express your grievances. Perhaps u guys shld write each other emails or chat when you are upset!! You come across as such an understanding person - wishing you all the best <br />@Berry Dakara - Saw ur wedding pics on BN! Fabulous! So I wanted to get to know u more and came here!! Bless U! Been married 9 years - and yes the first few years not just months feel like you have described & my hubby seems to be just like urs - uses the same phrase when we are broke! Enjoy it its a blessing in disguise!! If u married another realist like yourself u would "kill" each other! LOl!<br />ESOHEnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-43885579291202297342014-04-09T02:31:57.681-04:002014-04-09T02:31:57.681-04:00Awww, I feel for him. I get migraines too and they...Awww, I feel for him. I get migraines too and they're not fun at all. But you're right - no energy to argue during migraines. Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-32276137496173906512014-04-09T02:30:44.181-04:002014-04-09T02:30:44.181-04:00Thanks lady :)Thanks lady :)Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-87292354101700114592014-04-08T13:04:30.164-04:002014-04-08T13:04:30.164-04:00My soon to be husband has chronic migranes so we b...My soon to be husband has chronic migranes so we barely argue. In fact we can't afford to unless I want to be a young widow. Some things are blessings in disguiseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-27078913640937271232014-04-08T08:24:49.032-04:002014-04-08T08:24:49.032-04:00So down to earth! Love it!!! May your love and con...So down to earth! Love it!!! May your love and connection grow deeper and stronger. xoKLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17965988700621128921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-28031793707268751282014-04-07T11:41:59.335-04:002014-04-07T11:41:59.335-04:00Yay!! I'll make do with BFFBF. That's goin...Yay!! I'll make do with BFFBF. That's going to be my new signature so you'll know every time a comment comes from me.<br /><br />Hugs, BFFBFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-39832048308271530842014-04-07T04:45:12.412-04:002014-04-07T04:45:12.412-04:00Tanz a bunsh!Tanz a bunsh!Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-9766441599473399422014-04-07T04:44:49.711-04:002014-04-07T04:44:49.711-04:00Thanks ma'am. Yes, marriage sure makes you gro...Thanks ma'am. Yes, marriage sure makes you grow, if you're willing. I was listening to Focus on the Family today and they had Gary Chapman with them. He said (and I've heard it quite a few times) that one of the purposes of marriage is to learn how to love unconditionally. Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-39757022045156086172014-04-07T04:41:24.311-04:002014-04-07T04:41:24.311-04:00Thank you very very much! :DThank you very very much! :DBerry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-69133080543784614462014-04-07T04:41:02.397-04:002014-04-07T04:41:02.397-04:00Awwww. Mehn, I already feel bad for Cakes when pre...Awwww. Mehn, I already feel bad for Cakes when pregnancy comes :p<br /><br />It's good to see that there's hope after a short while. I'm sure you both decided to learn which battles to fight and which to sweep under the rug.Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-27400359371188946932014-04-07T04:39:26.726-04:002014-04-07T04:39:26.726-04:00Thank you ma'am. God bless!Thank you ma'am. God bless!Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-43915952485624339332014-04-07T04:39:07.359-04:002014-04-07T04:39:07.359-04:00Thank you :)Thank you :)Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-74820559459232494722014-04-07T04:38:48.233-04:002014-04-07T04:38:48.233-04:00LOL. I think there are couples who don't argue...LOL. I think there are couples who don't argue but it's rare. And if Cakes and I didn't argue, I would be afraid that we're not really being honest about what we think or how we feel about certain issues. I'm not saying we argue all the time, but there's conflict that good can come out of. Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-30849974791455108652014-04-07T04:37:15.753-04:002014-04-07T04:37:15.753-04:00I guess. But what about the ones that really aren&...I guess. But what about the ones that really aren't interested in hearing how married life is? They've decided how it is on your behalf and will argue with you about anything you say.Berry Dakarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12228332437019976580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5924600384444388546.post-86257635428178606422014-04-06T19:35:09.265-04:002014-04-06T19:35:09.265-04:00Awww. Appreciate your honesty.Awww. Appreciate your honesty.@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.com